{"product_id":"choosing-your-caregiver-and-main-support-people-he1293","title":"Choosing your caregiver and main support people - HE1293","description":"\u003ch3\u003eAcknowledgement:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe primary source of information for this support document has been derived from the patient information from OHSU and Kaiser Permanente\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eChoosing your support person: planning for recovery\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYour support persons are an important part of your total recovery plan. Pick people who are caring, dependable, and safe to be around. The National Travel Assistance (NTA) programme offers partial funding to assist your support person’s travel to Wellington in the first week after you are discharged from the hospital. We are going to refer to your main support person as your caregiver in this resource.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eWhy do I need a caregiver?\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYou need to have a safe and reliable plan for recovery after surgery. Gender affirming genital surgery requires a team both inside and outside the hospital so that you can heal well.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eGender affirming genital surgeries are extraordinarily complicated procedures, often involving multiple steps and surgeries. This also means being in the best possible physical and mental health before the surgery. A large part of these surgeries’ success depends on your preparedness which includes having appropriate post-operative support and caregivers. This post-operative care and support far exceeds that of any other gender affirming surgeries you may have had.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eSupport during this process is critical to your success. Some patients may choose to have multiple caregivers to lessen the work for any single caregiver. (NTA only provides funding for one support person’s flights to Wellington for post-operative support when you are discharged from Hospital)\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eHow long do they need to help?\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYou will need to have someone who is physically available at all times to help you with day-to-day activities for three weeks after you leave the hospital, and can be present at all times during this three week period. After that, your caregiver or a backup caregiver needs to be available (not necessarily present) 24 hours a day for two more weeks (in case of complications and prolonged healing). “Being available” means coming to help you within 30 minutes when needed.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eWho would be the best caregiver?\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThis type of caregiving often relies on a close relationship, as you will need to discuss care of your genitals. We recommend asking a family member, partner, spouse or long-term close friend. In our experience, well-meaning colleagues and acquaintances are not consistently reliable or prepared for the involvement in this type of caregiving. Caregiving is challenging, and it is best to have multiple people ready to help you. You need a backup plan in case your primary caregiver becomes sick or otherwise unavailable. It can also help to discuss the caregiver’s needs beforehand. This period can add strain to your relationship and discussing this openly is important.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eWhat is my caregiver’s role?\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eHospital support:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYour caregiver should be with you as much as possible once you have been discharged from hospital. Your caregiver will need to feel comfortable assisting you with genital hygiene care and surgical wound dressing changes.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eHome support:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYou will need your caregiver to help you get to and from the bathroom and shower, (and for phalloplasty patients, to complete dressing changes for the phallus and donor site) and help with food, transportation, laundry and other household chores and errands. You may also need help with caring for any children or pets.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eEmotional support:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYou will need a lot of emotional support, especially for phalloplasty patients who will for lying flat for most of the time for several weeks after the first and second stages.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eWe recommend that your caregiver read the resources relevant to your surgery we have compiled, to be better prepared for their role.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eYour primary caregiver will need emotional support as well:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThink about what coping strategies you can use during this time when your caregiver needs some down time.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eQuestions to ask yourself:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow would you feel about your caregiver assisting you to the toilet, to bathe, or to dress?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eIs your caregiver comfortable providing wound care?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eCan your caregiver drive, help with your grocery and household chores?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhat will your caregiver do to support themselves if they are overwhelmed?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eThink about your needs:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhat makes me feel calm and relaxed?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWho do I feel comfortable and safe to be around?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWho provides me with the emotional support I need?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWho makes me laugh?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWho is most dependable?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eCommunicate your needs:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eBe proactive in your communication\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eIdentify which activities and roles you need help with\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAssign specific tasks to individual support people\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eBrainstorm all aspects of your life, including day-to-day responsibilities around the house and activities of self-care that you enjoy.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eMeal preparation\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eSocial visits\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eLight housework (dog walking, laundry and tidying up).\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ePharmacy runs\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eGrocery shopping\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eTransportation to post-op appointments and to your GP\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eEmotional support\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eAdditional considerations:\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eHousing:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYou will need to have stable housing for the first six weeks after surgery. This should be a place that is physically and emotionally safe. Ideally it has either a walk-in shower or a removable showerhead (as this makes bathing and cleaning your surgical sites much easier) and not too many stairs.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eThink about:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDo you currently have stable, safe housing?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhat is your plan for stable, safe housing during recovery from surgery?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eYour own home.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eA friend or family member’s home.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHotel, Airbnb and apartment rental.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDo you have a “support person or team” — someone(s) to assist you in aftercare?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eIs your support person(s) available to be with you all the time for the first three weeks?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThinking about all the ways your support person(s) is prepared for your recovery:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eTransportation:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAre they available to:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAccompany you from the Hospital including carrying your bags when you are discharged, and help you get to your follow-up appointments.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eSupport you with grocery shopping, meal preparation and cleaning up after each meal.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHelp you to the bathroom, with showering and simple wound care.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ePick up supplies such as medications from the pharmacy or other household items.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHelp with laundry, house cleaning, taking out the garbage, checking the mail.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHelp with any responsibilities you have to provide such as childcare, pet care or other caregiver duties.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eTo keep you company so that you are not isolated or lonely during recovery.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYou should have a backup support in case the person you have chosen is unavailable to assist you as planned.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eFinancial planning:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYou should prepare to be out of work for up to six to eight weeks while you heal from your surgery. The length of time depends on the pace of your recovery and the nature of your job. You may be able to return sooner if you can work from home.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eThink about:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eIf you are working, are you able to take up to four weeks, or possibly more, time off from work to recover from surgery?\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThink about (and you can use this handy checklist) all the ways you are financially prepared during recovery. Have you got money set aside or can you realistically expect your usual income to cover:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eRent and mortgage\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eFood\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ePhone and other utilities\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eMedication or medical supplies\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eTransportation (This includes transportation to and from your local airport if you do not live in Welington, or to and from the hospital if you are Wellington based, and transport to take you to your follow up appointments when you are initially discharged from hospital; note that you you will have to stay close by until you are cleared to travel about 10 days or so later)\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAutomatic payments and direct debits\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eOther bills (credit cards, insurance, school loans, etc.)\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAdditional accomodation costs that you will need to cover when you are initially discharged from hospital; you are required to stay close to the hospital for another 10 days until cleared to return home if you do not live locally. (The National Travel Assisstance program provides only partial funding for this expense)\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eWe also recommend that you:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eMake a backup plan, in case you need more time to heal because of complications.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eFind out if you are eligible for any medical or annual leave through your employer.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eFind out if you are eligible for any MSD\/WINZ temporary sickness benefit or medical costs assistance.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eFor those undergoing phalloplasty, there are additional physical restrictions after surgery. After your first and second stage of surgery, you are not allowed to sit for up to four weeks, except to use the toilet. You can stand or lie flat. We recommend finding ways to function within those limits before surgery, while you are feeling well.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eFor instance, you will need to:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eMove from lying down to standing up while bending in your hips as little as possible.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ePull yourself up with only one arm, if your other arm is healing from a tissue donation.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eGetting dressed will be tough, especially when there is a bulky dressing around the phallus. It will be helpful to have pants that are loose and easy to put on, and slip-on shoes.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eSupplies to get before surgery:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eWe suggest, to reduce the financial burden, to consider buying some of the medical supplies you will need when you return home several months ahead of time and purchasing just a few items at a time. We can let you know as you begin to proceed to surgery what supplies you may need for your return home.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eAdapting to change:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIt is critical that you have a solid and safe plan for recovery, even if it means delaying your planned or anticipated surgery. We understand circumstances may change in the time leading up to your surgery. Please let us know right away of any such changes, so we can help you determine if and how they would impact your surgery or recovery plan.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eSome unexpected changes may include:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eMoving or loss of housing.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eLoss of income and financial concerns.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eA change of caregiver(s).\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eA new health condition.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eOur patients who delayed their surgery due to unforeseen circumstances were grateful they did so. This is especially true given the challenges associated with this surgery and its recovery.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eWe understand the importance and urgency of this surgery.\u003cbr\u003eWe also know your success hinges on being well prepared. Remember, this is a lifelong investment in your health. Optimal preparation can improve your chances of positive physical and mental health outcomes.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eFollowing surgery, people may sometimes experience feelings such as:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eUps and downs in your mood and temporary feelings of tiredness, sadness, or irritability.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ePostoperative depression does not affect everyone, but when it happens it can be confusing; people expect emotions after surgery should be very positive, but that is not always the case at first.\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDisappointment that the results are quite different from what was expected and require surgical revision.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDiscouragement with postoperative care.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eBoredom or isolation during the recovery period.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eSadness over the negative reaction of certain people close to you.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eRe-triggering of past trauma and\/or sexual abuse; the pain experienced in your surgical area, limited mobility, and intimate post op cares needed, can be triggering.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eFeeling of loss of independence and control; recovering from surgery places people in a position that may feel very vulnerable.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eFeeling tired, exhaustion due to pain, and lack of motivation to look after yourself and adhere to the aftercare regimes, that are important for your recovery.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eGender-affirming surgery: The Importance of self-care for patients and caregivers\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eAbout Self-Care:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eMaking sure that we take time for ourselves is one of the most important aspects of living a full and emotionally healthy life. Unfortunately, these activities of self-care are often the first things that drop off our daily “to-do” list when life gets stressful. Committing to self-care activities may assist you in your physical and emotional recovery, or help you to look after yourself if you are a support person.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat is self-care?\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eSelf-care is any activity that you consciously do to tend to your mental, emotional, and physical needs. They are fun, enjoyable, or relaxing activities that replenish you.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat are some barriers to self-care?\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYou might not engage in activities of self-care for a variety of reasons. You might think that it feels selfish. You might think that self-care is indulgent. Sometimes, financial limitations restrict our ability to even brainstorm a list of self-care activities.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eRemember this:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eSelf-care is necessary and not selfish. It may feel indulgent and that can be good. Most importantly, the vast majority of self-care activities are free!\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eSome Self-Care Activities:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eRead a library book\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eMeditate\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ePrioritize sleep\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eEat a healthy, nutritious diet\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eCook something new\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eLaugh with friends\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWrite an uplifting letter to a friend\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eKeep a gratitude journal\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eTake a hot shower\/bath\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eGo for a walk\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eExplore a new area of town\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eListen to your favourite songs\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWatch your favourite movie\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eTalk with a friend—in person!\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDe-clutter your closet or home\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHave a picnic with a friend\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eGo to counselling\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eLight candles or an oil diffuser\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eLie outside and watch the clouds\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ePamper yourself – dress in your favourite clothes or wear comfy clothes to help you relax\/feel better, wear your favourite makeup, eat your favourite comfort food, get a haircut, moisturize your body.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eEat the rainbow! Getting a balanced, nutritious diet with lots of fruit and vegetables will help your mind and body feel its best.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eStimulate your senses - smell something (perfume, a flower), taste something (something strong flavoured or something you really like), listen to something (nature sounds or music), touch something (fabric, a furry pet, a teddy bear), stimulate your vision (by looking at a colour you like or pics of baby animals).\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAdd your own ideas to this list and try to complete at least one activity of self-care each day. Make sure it is intentional, replenishing, and enjoyable.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eTips to help with an anxiety attack:\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eLook around you and find:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eFive things can see,\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eFour things you can touch,\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eThree things you can hear,\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eTwo things you can smell\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eOne thing you can taste.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThis is called grounding. It can help when you feel you have lost all control of your surroundings or are feeling overwhelmed.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eSight:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eTo engage your sense of sight, here are some ideas:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eLook at every little detail on a family photo on the wall.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eFocus on a small object, such as a pencil or coffee mug, and identify every colour and shape.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eLook at the sky for clouds, birds, sunrises, or anything else you can spot around.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eFocus your attention on a plant or flower and how it moves with the wind.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eObserve a pet while they play or rest.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYou can pick large or small items to focus on. Once you choose an object, try to notice the colour, texture, and patterns.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eTouch:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eActivating your sense of touch can help distract you from anxious thoughts and may help you to decrease \u003ca href=\"https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/anxiety\/panic-attack-symptoms\"\u003ethe physical signs of anxiety\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eYou might want to try these exercises:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ePut your hands under running water, alternating between warm and cold temperatures every 30 seconds, or try holding an ice cube.\u003cbr\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eFocus on how your clothing feels on your body or how your hair feels on your head.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eTouch different body parts by pressing down and holding for 30 seconds before moving to a different area.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eTouch the furniture in your living area and focus on its texture. For example, take notice of a smooth table.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eHearing:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eFocusing on external sounds can help ground you in the moment. Here are some noises to notice:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ea barking dog\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ea stomach rumbling\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ea clock ticking\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003etraffic outside\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ea car, bus or motorcycle engine\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003emusic\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003econversation\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ebirds singing\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ethe wind blowing\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eSmell:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eTo incorporate smell into your grounding techniques, you may want to try these tips:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWalk into your bathroom and sniff a bar of soap or shampoo.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eLight a scented candle.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDiffuse a scented oil.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eTake in simple smells around you, such as the scent of a pillow on the couch or a pencil\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWalk outside and breathe deeply through your nose. Maybe you will smell fresh cut grass or flowers blooming.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eTaste:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eTry to pick something that you can easily taste, such as:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ea piece of gum\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ea mint\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ecoffee\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003esugar and salt\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ea piece of food\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYou don’t actually have to taste these items if you don’t have them on hand. Instead, try thinking about the distinct flavours as you remember them.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eA few more grounding tips:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eBreathe:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eTry what’s called “Boxed Breathing,” in which you’ll breathe in for four seconds, hold for four seconds, breathe out for four seconds, hold for four seconds, and so on until you feel grounded. You can also tighten your muscles and release them while breathing, focusing on your breath and practicing mindfulness all the way through.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eStretch:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYou can perform light stretches while you focus on your breath as well, paying close attention to the physical sensations that arise from the activity.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eExercise:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eExercise, again with an emphasis on the physicality of your exertions, is an effective way to get back into your body. Whether simple jumping jacks, a long run on a favourite trail, or even a gentle walk around the block - feeling the sensations of exercise on your body can bring you back from a place of panic.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eMindfulness:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eWhether you engage your senses through a “five, four, three, two, one exercise,” — where you identify five objects, four different sounds, three textures, two smells, and one taste — or by simply focusing your awareness on the present moment and bodily sensation, it’s important to draw your attention to the present.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eSenses:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eFocus on a particular sensation like holding an ice cube and noticing what it feels like or smelling an essential oil.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eTry following the three-three-three rule: \u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eLook around you and name three things you see. Then, name three sounds you hear. Finally, move three parts of your body — your ankle, fingers, or arm.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eLastly, if you are feeling really down it’s important to get as much support as possible, including professional support.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eYou can:\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eFree \u003cstrong\u003e\u003ca href=\"tel:1737\" title=\"call 1737\" aria-describedby=\"a11y-new-window-external-message\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\"\u003ecall\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e or \u003cstrong\u003e\u003ca href=\"sms:1737\" title=\"text 1737\" aria-describedby=\"a11y-new-window-external-message\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\"\u003etext 1737\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e anytime for support from a trained counsellor\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eOutline: call \u003cstrong\u003e\u003ca rel=\"noopener\" aria-describedby=\"a11y-new-window-external-message\" title=\"call 0800 688 5463\" href=\"tel:08006885463\" target=\"_blank\"\u003e0800 688 5463\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e between 6pm and 9pm to talk to a trained volunteer from the LGBTIQ+ community. 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